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7 things you should never let your life be controlled by 

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“Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don't.”
― Steve Maraboli

Written by Charlene Mind'je F.

Place of publication: Kigali-Rwanda 

Time reading: 6 minutes 

A reasonable life can be achieved by anyone!

Many people spend their life at the mercy of circumstances and what happened to them because they are still mired in the past. You must make a commitment to living a great life if you want to have one. Act in a way that differs from the norm. Decide to adopt a minority viewpoint rather than that of the majority. 

Here are 7 things you should never allow yourself to be controlled by, to live  an abundant happy successful life : 

Number 1: FEAR 

Don't allow your worries to rule your daily activities! Too frequently, we let anxiety, worry, and doubt rule and define our lives. Despite your worry, you must act or you will miss an opportunity. Fear is the one thing that prevents us from moving on and completely wrecks our existence. However, it is not necessary to be that way. While some "good" fear is necessary, we may draw the line and discover ways to manage negative fear before it manages us.

Number 2:   YOUR PAST 

Never let your past dictate how you live in the present or in the future. The past and its issues must be set aside so that we can focus on the present and look to the future with great hope and optimism. It is also important to remember that we cannot go forward without doing away with the past. The only way to triumph over someone who has wronged you is to forgive them and move over it.  If you want to succeed, you must put your attention on creating your future.

Number 3: NEGATIVE FEELINGS

Hatred, envy, and anger have never been beneficial to anyone. Your ability to think clearly can be clouded by these unfavorable feelings. You'll wind up acting spitefully, making bad choices, or preventing yourself from enjoying your greatest life. Any time you allow a negative emotion to rule, you limit your chances of experiencing joy. Additionally, being so pessimistic is harmful. Instead of allowing your emotions to control you, learn to control them. Use my other article on "How to protect your Inner peace in the link below : 

https://mypath2passion.blogspot.com/2022/07/protect-your-peace.html

Number 4: OTHER PEOPLE'S JUDGEMENTS

It is in everyone's instinct to desire to fit in and be liked. But frequently, this causes people to worry excessively about what other people think of them. This is your life to live. At the end of the day, you are the only person who needs to approve of your own choices. Nobody will ever be as invested in your life as you. Only you know what is best for you, and that entails learning from your own choices. The only way you will ever truly learn is through making your own decisions, and taking full responsibility for them, and that way if you do fail, at least you can learn from it wholeheartedly, as opposed to blaming somebody else. Know that those who really care for you, will see that light and shine with you.

Number 5: FALSE ASSUMPTIONS

False assumptions impede us from achieving our objectives and pursuing our interests are known as limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs may prevent you from taking essential actions, such as applying for your ideal job or establishing (or ending) a fulfilling romantic relationship. Imagine what you could achieve if you live your life through anything possible. As the saying goes: "When there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm". When you have nothing inside holding you back, there is nothing outside that can hold you back either.

Number 6: RELATIONSHIPS 

If you depend on another person to make you happy and complete, you run the risk of breaking down if that person leaves you or becoming unhappy if your current relationship is not working out. This does not mean that relationships are not good _ Love and connection are the strongest and most marvelous forces ever. But this is directed at people who can't survive without being in a committed relationship. Those who won't hesitate to spend time with anyone, including the wrong people, in order to escape ever being alone. to attain a level of mental fortitude where you are no longer dependent on other people to fulfill your needs. You ought to enjoy being single as much as you do being in a relationship. You should let it go. (For more details on how to let go of things that do not contribute to your growth, refer to this link https://mypath2passion.blogspot.com/2022/07/art-of-letting-go.html )

Number 7: MONEY 

Money is a nonliving thing that should only be used as a tool to help us live the lives we wish. The issue is that most people don't view money in that sense, and as a result, we've formed an unhealthy relationship with it becoming a little bit toxic. If you are choosing something only on the factor of how much money is involved, you have just made the wrong decision. What you will find, is that when you follow your heart and you live with your intention to serve others, to give your best to others every single time, when you follow your intuition and truly give your soul _Then the MONEY will come.

Finally, 

To live the life you want, set a challenge for yourself. Free yourself from any kind of restraint. Live fully and you will find your Freedom. You will discover bad results if you concentrate on the bad aspects of our world. On the other hand, if you look for the good, you will discover it. By giving each instant of our lives a purpose, we create the reality we want for ourselves.

Use this link to discover additional shifts on how you can start having full control over your life: https://soulsalt.com/taking-control-of-your-life/

Spec-Tacular Mind Opinion

Keep in mind that you experience life according to what you give your purpose to. Always try to focus on the positive aspects of life and others. And your life will always be prosperous. Avoid anything you can not control and only equip yourself with things that can contribute to your inner well-being and that of others.

For more inspiring details, watch this clip video, as it reveals The power within you by Henry Thomas :

SOURCE: Fearless Soul Group by Josiah Ruff 2018 /Teamsoul.com vol;2-3

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