ART OF LETTING GO

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Letting go of people who are not ready to be in our lives.

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“Letting go doesn't mean that you don't care about someone anymore. It's just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.”
― Deborah Reber,

Written by Charlene Mind'je
Place of publication: Kigali-Rwanda
Time reading : 3 minutes                                                             

 SOURCE: These wonderful ideas were gotten from the #Spirit - Spirituality-Metaphysics book   


We must learn to let go of people who are not ready to be in our lives.
We must learn to preserve ourselves and abandon those who are not ready to love us.
Sometimes the best thing we can do for ourselves and for others is to simply let go and detach from each other.


However, it is also one of the hardest things to do. Because we are not taught to let go - we mostly learn to win, to want more, and in this way we stay close to people and relationships that are not good for us- precisely for fear of letting go.

When someone comes into our lives, we are not always able to predict how our relationship with that person will evolve. We are generally optimistic. We want to make our connection always positive and we even make plans together, but things don't always go as planned.     
The other person may just not be ready to be with us, and when that happens, we may feel really confused about what to do.


Should we wait until the other person changes their mind and risk wasting a lot of time on something that might not work? Or should we just let go and go our own way, allowing life to do what's best for us, even if we don't like it at first sight?


To attempt and sacrifice our emotional well-being just to keep someone by our side is a selfish attitude towards the other person and also toward ourselves. We must preserve ourselves and let go of those who are not ready to be in our lives or to love us. Insisting will not bring love or reciprocity to someone else's heart.

People behave in different ways and that's normal. For our well-being, we must be able to identify when to stop insisting and let things happen naturally. Not all relationships have happy endings, people don't always stay in our lives as long as we want them to. After fulfilling their mission they leave.


We must develop enough maturity to accept that our paths diverge and respect each other's right to freedom, even if it hurts us. Letting go can be difficult, but also what makes us strong and allows us to live in peace.

We may suffer for a moment, but we will be grateful for it all our lives because there is nothing better than letting life go as it should – and surprising ourselves rather than being disappointed by unfulfilled expectations.

Taoism -a Chinese philosophy based on the writings of Lao-tzu will give some advice on this context. To benefit from them, watch this video : 





Spec-Tacular mind opinion

Walk away from those who are not ready to be in your life. This will allow you a new beginning and a new chance to be happy.

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