IT'S NEVER BEEN AN ACCIDENT

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#6 types of frequent connections / We don't meet people by accident

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In our life, we ​​must always remember that everything happens for a reason and we never meet anyone by accident.

Written by Charlene Mind'je F.

Place of Publication: Kigali Rwanda

Time reading : 4 min

No matter where our journey takes us, there is always a way to meet different types of people at every stage of life. And we meet them for different reasons even if we don't always realize it.

Synchronisms are meaningful coincidences. They are people who come into our lives to show us things and sometimes even to help us along our journey. Synchronic connections occur in many forms.

We have all learned something from our meetings. There are people who come into our lives to improve them and grow with us and others to make us suffer and hurt us.

However, there is always something positive to take from whatever situation you are in, often even the most difficult ones.

This article will introduce you to 6 of the most common types of encounters we have throughout our lives :

1. Those destined to wake us up

They come into our lives to show us the difference between expectation and reality.

There are people we let into our life without imagining how toxic they will be to us. But despite the fact that we would rather never meet them, it turns out that these meetings had a very specific purpose. Some lessons we are meant to learn can only be given through them, and often these people give us hardships to overcome, in an effort to quicken our spiritual growth.

2. Those that help us evolve and grow.

They are called the teachers of our soul. They are people from whom we learn best.

They show us our true selves and also help us to have a better opinion of ourselves. Their presence,  make us stronger and more aware. These people often quickly enter our personal lives, because they are reflections of ourselves. With these people we evolve, but in the direction of fusion and spiritual transformation. We then forget individualism to move forward together. This relationship is so powerful that it reaches the highest degree of cosmic connection.

3. Those who are here to last and stay forever

They are people who stay until the end of our lives, but they are rare. 

They are there to support us and intervene when we need them most. It can be anyone: friend, partner, family member, colleague, or guide. They share our values, our ideas, and our vision of life. There is no way to find them on our own, the universe will send us this powerful connection when it feels we are ready.

4. Those that stimulate our memory

These people only appear for a short period of time. They generally arrive during a period of trouble. 

Unconsciously they help us find our trajectory and put our ideas back in place: they remind us of who we are and help us to remember our goals. These people are extremely important with regard to the power of the universe and cosmic connections. They usually land at a crucial moment and prevent us from sinking.

5. Those who reserve a place for us in their lives.

These people enter our lives and are able to make us forget loneliness. 

This cosmic connection is widespread and well known. It concerns the people we meet the most and with whom we create a bond. However, we will never be able to establish a deep relationship with them. There will always be an invisible wall, with a breach that will allow occasional exchanges. But these moments of meeting with them are essential to our well-being. Because they usually help us to relax by having a good time and regaining confidence in ourselves.

6. Those who must leave

They don't stay long. These people come into our lives for a different purpose.

They are sent to us so that we can learn from them _Whether positive or negative.

Sometimes these people come into our lives and make us fall in love only to break our hearts. They show us a different world, in a brief period where they are present and suddenly they disappear, and everything changes. 

Spec-Tacular Mind opinion

Whatever the reason that pushes some people to come into our lives, know that what matters is not the roles they play in our lives, but the way you react to their presence and the lessons they give. However, you must refrain from any reaction that could prevent you from growing in a climate of prosperity and knowing how to let go of certain toxic people.

To understand better, you can use my other article on: "How to learn to let go", at the following link: https://mypath2passion.blogspot.com/2022/07/art-of-letting-go.html 

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@@@After reading this content, do you recognize the reason for some of your friends in your life? If so, do not hesitate to share with us what you think of them.