ADVICE FOR HARD TIME

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# 12 Bits of Advice for Difficult Times/Wisdom 

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Every adversity, every failure, and every heartache carries with it the seed of an equivalent or a greater benefit.

_ Napoleon Hill

Written by Charlene Mind'je F.

Place of publication: Kigali-Rwanda

Time reading : 8 minutes

Wisdom is like a gentle wind that rekindles the sacred fire of life ... 

You may be going through a difficult ordeal right now. Know that life is made of hardships You have met some and you will meet others throughout your life. Some are or will be more difficult. But if you are equipped with wisdom, you will always come out a winner. Obviously, wisdom is like a gentle wind that revives the sacred fire of life. 

Behind every trial, there is a lesson; there is a door that you can and must unlock. However, to get there, you need the right key. Because when you hold this key, then the trials of your life will be easier to bear. Each victory you win will then make you stronger. Each test then becomes an experience similar to a rung that you climb towards your ascent.

To meditate and strengthen yourself in difficult times, this article will present you with 12 essential tips that will help you overcome your hardships. But then, it will not simply be rich to read and know it but also apply them.

@SOURCE: These pieces of advice are taken from the book of Siddharta Gautama _ the Buddha

1. Things are what they are

Things are as they are and they will not always be as we would like them to be. Our suffering increases when we refuse to see things as they are. If you let muddy water stand, it will clear up. If you let your troubled mind rest, the thing to do will become clear to you. If you cannot change the course of an event, if you are powerless in the face of a situation, shut up, breathe and observe. Reality will always take over. realize. Your suffering of the moment will eventually dissipate. To fly away you need to stop clinging.

2. The best is yet to come

If something doesn't go as planned, it doesn't mean all is lost. as we wish, our consciousness is aligned with the purpose of our life. But when things seem to be going wrong, reassure yourself and accept that they are going as they are. Time is benevolent. It always works for our good.

3. Experience the joy

Don't tell yourself that you will be happy tomorrow if you are not today. Tomorrow may be a projection or amplification of what you are going through today. So you will be less happy. Observe happy people, they see growth in everything. They just understood that it was important to focus on joy and not on difficulty. Even in the worst of times, they always find a reason to bring the rays of joy into their hearts. So, experience joy, right now. Receive with joy any experience you have to face.

4. Look beyond the problem

Everything is seen from a perspective. The same situation may seem difficult in one case, and easy in another. What seems like a big problem to you, maybe a small problem that you are watching closely. If your problem is a solution, then there is no point in worrying. And if your problem has no solution, worrying will not change anything. Look at any difficulty as a challenge to be overcome. So any problem will become a learning opportunity.

5. Failure is always a great lesson in learning

There is no better learning than making a mistake. successful people have failed many times. Take advantage of your failures as a great learning experience. They teach you what you shouldn't do next time. If you take things that way, failure will no longer exist for you. Because the next mistake will only be one step closer to success.

6. Your life is your life and not that of another

Sometimes we often tend to compare ourselves to others without discernment. If this happens to you, learn to overcome your weakness by recognizing that you are on earth because it is necessary. You are on earth to accomplish your own mission. Never compare yourself to anyone or their level. If you succumb to the temptation of comparison, examine everything in your life. You will realize that you have things that others do not. And that you have everything you need to be happy. No one is superior or inferior to another.

7. Everything changes every moment

Everything in this life is dynamic. The universe does not stop changing, growing, and expanding. Nothing is frozen and nothing is ever acquired. Everything is impermanent. So if you do not know what to do In an unforeseen situation, it is better that you do nothing. Remain patient and attentive because this too will eventually change. If you have understood this, never stop learning, because life never stops teaching. Learn from what's happened and you'll better understand what's to come.

8. Appreciate the present moment.

Yesterday someone behaved badly towards you-You can't forget. You ask yourself a thousand questions. You feel bad. You are playing with something that no longer exists. The past is no more. Alone regrets and remorse torment you. But the future is not yet. And you forget the present moment, yet it is the end of everything you have lived, and the beginning of everything you will live. Your present is the reality from which you can prepare for your future life.

9. Be careful to live according to your wishes.

Be vigilant when you notice that your life begins to be guided by your desires. This could leave a bitter taste in your existence. An unsatisfied desire becomes great frustration. And frustration generates negative energy that slows down your evolution. Happiness is what you desire. Measure it by how you appreciate what you have achieved so far.

10. Everything is possible

In life, nothing is easy, nothing is certain, and nothing is predictable. But because you are alive, nothing is impossible. It is by persevering that you will obtain a change of consciousness and that you will discover in yourself, the happiness of living. Believe in yourself and make yourself trust. Above all take care, that the change begins in you.

We all used to think that everything will be fine when circumstances change. But the truth is, however, circumstances only change when the change comes from within. Don't wait for things to be better. Believe deeply. it's up to you to give them meaning. Finally, overcome your doubts and fears by taking action.

Lean on the teachings received in this message and you can transform your world. Above all, protect your peace from being overwhelmed by difficult times.

Find in the following link, my article on how to protect your inner peace: https://mypath2passion.blogspot.com/2022/07/protect-your-peace.html

Spec-Tacular mind Opinion

When it seems to you that all is lost, think of the trees. They also lose their leaves in autumn, but they remain standing waiting for the best day of spring.

It is through your own experience that you advance towards your destiny. And that each difficult test in your life today is one more lesson for your next success. Never forget that it is experience that makes you wise.

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