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Personal development Well mind  #Never mistake a difference for a defect Everyone has an inspiring story to tell       _     What is yours? Olga Akingeneye _Rwandan “We, the ones who are challenged, need to be heard. To be seen not as a disability, but as a person who has and will continue to bloom. To be seen not only as a handicap but as a well intact human being.”   — Robert M. Hensel Written by Charlene Mind'je Place of publication: Kigali Rwanda Time reading: 5 minutes We all live in this world according to the plan that was designed for us. Some people are said to be born lucky living in the standard of what the world perceives to be perfect. But for others, it is quite the opposite _ The simple fact that they have a certain difference whether of mind or body, makes them away beings. Yet that should not be the case. This inspired me to talk to a young woman named Olga, who shared a rather unique story of her life with us. According to O...

 Personal development Well-mind 7 things you should never let your life be controlled by  Image by Shutterstock/Entrepreneur “Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don't.” ―  Steve Maraboli Written by Charlene Mind'je F. Place of publication: Kigali-Rwanda  Time reading: 6 minutes  A reasonable life can be achieved by anyone! Many people spend their life at the mercy of circumstances and what happened to them because they are still mired in the past. You must make a commitment to living a great life if you want to have one. Act in a way that differs from the norm. Decide to adopt a minority viewpoint rather than that of the majority.  Here are 7 things you should never allow yourself to be controlled by, to live  an abundant happy successful life :  Number 1 : FEAR  Don't allow your worries to rule your daily activities! Too frequently, we...

 Personal Development Well-mind # 12 Bits of Advice for Difficult Times/Wisdom  Image by hack life Every adversity, every failure, and every heartache carries with it the seed of an equivalent or a greater benefit. _  Napoleon Hill

 Personal development Well mind  Anger is the catalyst for change “Usually when people are sad, they don't do anything. They just cry over their condition. But when they get angry, they bring about a change.”    ―  Malcolm X Anger is an essential communication that our bodies transmit to us but that we are unable to interpret because the thinking brain is temporarily disabled, and occasionally causes us to say and do things that we may later regret. Written by Charlene Mind'je F. Place of publication: Kigali-Rwanda Time reading :  It's okay to be angry sometimes!... Anger is a normal emotion in life. We have every right to feel it. But we also have a duty - especially to ourselves to control it. Anger is socially undesirable and people believe it is an emotion that should not exist. Yet it is a useful emotion because it leads us to change.  Do not be afraid of anger but consider it as a motor of indignation. What is Anger?  Anger is an emotional r...

Personal development Well-mind  Never allow others'  behavior to  destroy your inner peace. We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves_Dalai Lama Image by SoundCloud  It's crucial to realize that you cannot compel others to feel right or bad. Unfortunately, there will be instances when you will  get annoyed by other people's actions whether you want it or not. Written by Charlene Mind'je F. Place of publication: Kigali-Rwanda Time reading: 4min Dalai Lama,  the head monk of Tibetan Buddhism once said;  Distractions are all around, and you cannot help it anyway. This is more like protecting your own feet with slippers, knowing that you won’t be able to carpet the whole earth at a go!  In our daily life, we meet people with diverse personalities: Kind, attentive, understandable, but also selfish, malicious, manipulative, etc.  It is then very easy for us to approach the energies of others and get caught up i...

 Personal development Well-mind 10 Traits That Reveal A Person With Above-Average Empathy Picture by I sweatpants and coffee If you recognize yourself as an empath, know that you have a special connection with the world around you. Empathy is a person's ability to feel others' emotions at a high level! Written by charlene Mind'je F. Place of pub: Kigali-Rwanda Time reading : 5 minutes Most of the time, we don't just feel our personal emotions, we also feel the emotions and feelings of others. Generally, empaths people are creative, compassionate, and spiritual beings.  However, being spiritual does not necessarily mean being a believer. It simply means being open to the forces or energies we feel in our environments. Empaths sense the world around them and sense what others are experiencing through their highly developed senses and intuition which they  use. "Empathetic  people naturally want to absorb the pain of others into their own flesh in order to provide rel...

Personal development Well mind  #6 types of frequent connections / We don't meet people by accident Picture of delight mindset In our life, we ​​must always remember that everything happens for a reason and we never meet anyone by accident. Written by Charlene Mind'je F. Place of Publication: Kigali Rwanda Time reading : 4 min No matter where our journey takes us, there is always a way to meet different types of people at every stage of life.  And we meet them for different reasons even if we don't always realize it. Synchronisms are meaningful coincidences. They are people who come into our lives to show us things and sometimes even to help us along our journey.  Synchronic connections occur in many forms. We have all learned something from our meetings. There are people who come into our lives to improve them and grow with us and others to make us suffer and hurt us. However, there is always something positive to take from whatever situation you are in, often even the m...

 Personal development Well-mind Letting go of people who are not ready to be in our lives. Image by grow today “Letting go doesn't mean that you don't care about someone anymore. It's just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.” ―   Deborah Reber, Written by Charlene Mind'je Place of publication: Kigali-Rwanda Time reading : 3 minutes                                                                 SOURCE: These wonderful ideas were gotten from the #Spirit - Spirituality-Metaphysics book    We must learn to let go of people who are not ready to be in our lives. We must learn to preserve ourselves and abandon those who are not ready to love us. Sometimes the best thing we can do for ourselves and for others is to simply let go and detach from each other. However, it is also one...

 Personal development Well-mind DO YOU HAVE THESE STRANGE FEELINGS AS WELL? #UNDERSTAND YOURSELF THROUGH OTHERS  Picture by exploring your mind Written by CHARLENE MIND'JE F. Place of publication: Kigali-Rwanda Time reading: 2min I'm sure and certain that after reading these ideas listed below, many of you will recognize them. I created this content, just to prove to you that you are not alone. Now is the time you consider yourself normal. Because after all, we the people of the world, do not necessarily have the same physical traits or the same thought. Despite our indifference, we are all human beings. I'm not sure if you've felt this way before, but ever since I started learning about myself, I've had the idea that maybe I'm not where I should be. For instance, I ought to have been born somewhere else_ Isaac,18. Sometimes I think I see details that others don't. But the thing is, I can't express or speak properly what I see._ Bijoux,21. I am always ...

 Personal development  Well-mind 4 PROBLEMS THAT ALWAYS ARRIVE IN A DISORGANIZED HOME Image by dreamstime.com Our houses are our refuge. We must try to keep it clean, to avoid certain problems of life from happening to us. Written by Charlene Mind'je F. Place of  publication: Kigali-Rwanda Time reading: 2 minutes The older we become, the more we value and recognize the value of having our property in a clean condition. When we are still kids, we cannot perceive the need for cleanliness in our homes because our character is not yet developed. But the more we advance towards adulthood, the more we feel the need to find ourselves. in a clean place. It is not for nothing that the adage "HOME SWEET HOME" exists - because our home is a place where we feel much more comfortable and free to operate all our activities without judgment: We do things in our way without owing anything to anyone. For the most part, that's the better place we find a quiet refuge to recharge our ene...

 Personal development Well-mind  HOW BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE Photo by John Ankerberg show Does it often happens to you also, to wonder, why bad things happen to good people? Or rather why do good things happen to bad people? Written by charlene Mind'je F. Place of publication: Kigali-Rwanda Time reading: 5 minutes Often we sigh in despair and declare "Life is not fair!".T his is eventually an inaccurate statement, because, in reality, life is fair.  We all create our reality using the same rules as everyone else. Rules have nothing to do with being good or bad.  To understand these rules, the first thing we need to remember is that many of us were raised to believe that good deeds should be rewarded and bad ones should be punished.  However, do not forget that it is your expectations that dictate what you receive and what stays away from you. If you do not have a positive expectation, even if you are good, generous, and helpful, it will not bring you th...

 Personal development Well-mind 25 LIFE LESSONS TO LEARN FROM BUDDHA Image by toute la Thailande One can learn many beautiful and powerful life lessons by reading the many quotes from Buddha. Written by Charlene Mind'je Place of pub: Kigali-Rwanda Time reading: 4min  WHO is Buddha? Shakyamuni says the "awakened" Buddha is a spiritual leader who teaches meditation. He lived about 2500 years ago in India. He was born in Lumbini (Nepal) where he is called "Siddhartha Gautama", the one who reaches his goal.  Several stories exist about his life, but some episodes are famous and relate the same facts.  If you want to know who is this man that most of us talk about and refer to learn some life advice, click on this link: https://www.britannica.com/biography/Buddha-founder-of-Buddhism However, before his death, the Buddha left us many wonders of his teachings, of which here are 25 of the best known :  1. Love heals everything. 2. It's not what you say but what yo...